Comments on: To Be In Reality Stop Fantasizing

By: Ryan

Ryan — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 18:52:44 +0000

Hey there…
I had been looking for an article on this topic for a long time.Actually,I have been fantasizing for years.It is so difficult to achieve something in the real world but with fantasizing I can let all my dreams come true within minutes.No surprises I love doing it.I have tried not to do it but whenever I try,I realize that I have nothing better to do so I switch to fantasizing to pass my time.I have created an alternate world of my own although it is a secret with me.If somebody else gets to know of this they will consider me “mad”.
Please Ivan,I need your help.

By: Life Coaching

Life Coaching — Wed, 09 Mar 2011 20:08:56 +0000

Interesting article and I agree that living in a fantasy world is not a good thing, but I also believe that fantasising and visualising are two totally different things – visualising is an absolutely brilliant tool for achieving our goals and is so powerful that it is used by almost all top athletes as part of their training programmes. I use it all the time with my clients and it gets results!

Fantasising is saying unrealistic stuff like ‘I am going to marry Pamela Andersen’.

Don’t make the mistake of stifling your imagination and losing this very powerful goal-achieving tool. Visualise your goals for a few minutes each day and watch them come to life.

Mel

By: Mala

Mala — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 02:45:35 +0000

Great article. An old rough man who ran a restaurant said this in a TV show: The number one priority of life of person is to figure out that we are just a sack of crap. This sounds rough but it did mean a lot. Our fantasy makes us feel like we are so important. Actually, once we get rid of that fantasy and think we are nothing but a common person, we will be much more humble and we can achieve a lot more.

By: Nea | Self Improvement Saga

Nea | Self Improvement Saga — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 15:59:20 +0000

Interesting article, but I have a contrary outlook. I believe fantasizing can be extremely healthy and helpful. Many adults fall into the trap of not consciously directing their thoughts. They may fantasize in a negative way by focusing on what they wish they had, thus creating a more lackful life experience. But when you are in control of your imagination and you realize your creative powers, you can think, imagine, and fantasize your way into the reality of your dreams. .-= Nea | Self Improvement Saga´s last blog ..Peer Pressure and Conformity: Do You Fear Standing Out from the Crowd? =-.

By: mezz

mezz — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 04:41:52 +0000

thank you it relates to it perfectly …I love the Tao Te Ching…@Greg:

By: Greg

Greg — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 04:34:51 +0000

Here’s something written by Lao-Tzu, that I kept after reading it awhile back called “Reason’s Realisation”.Spellings are direct from the book. I believe it relates to what you’ve written in the sense that it talks about desire and how wanting more can not fulfill one’s spirit.

The reason that can be reasoned is not the eternal Reason.
The name that can be named is not the eternal Name.
The Unnameable is of heaven and earth the beginning.
The Nameable becomes of the ten thousand things the mother,
Therefore it is said:

He who desireless is found
The spiritual of the world will sound.
But he who by desire is bound
Sees the mere shell of things around.

These two things are the same in source
But different in name.
Their sameness is called a mystery.
Indeed, it is the mystery of mysteries.

It is the door of all spirituality
.-= Greg´s last blog ..Sunset approaches and a coyote just snuck across the road about… =-.

By: mezz

mezz — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 04:12:44 +0000

thanks so much for your great feedback...I will def. look into it...once again thank...I really appreciate you taking the time to read the post and comment on it....be well..namaste@Rui Umezawa:

By: mezz

mezz — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 04:11:01 +0000

thanks I appreciate you coming back to the site…I did not intent to make it one sided…I am sorry if thats how it came out…It applies to both sexes …maybe you could shed some light from a womans perspective …hope all is well…@Sabine: